Generally femdom is about sex play. The woman leads and does what she wants, when she wants to. How much and how intensely the woman dominates the man depends on each relationship.
Some people restrict play to the bedroom and others prefer to live a complete femdom lifestyle where the man relinquishes total control and always obeys her wishes.
There are patterns of domme behavior that are popular. One specific method is control is orgasm denial. Typically the man is required to wear a chastity device and is unable to receive any sexual pleasure without his mistress.
Another form is control is ‘feminization’, ‘sissification’ or making the man dress in womens clothing to humiliate him. This helps break the assumption that he has power as a male.
In the bedroom, the domme may demand oral sex without reciprocating in any way, or may assert her control by demanding foot worship. There is lots of room to be creative, but communication is key in having a healthy dom sub relationship.
Outside of the bedroom the man may make his domme dinner, do all of the dishes, clean the house, and dry her when she is done bathing.
